October 5th Discussion: Getting What you want from M/s

Please come and join us for another meeting of MAsT:MetroNY: A discussion group for people who identify or are interested in identifying as either Master/slave or Owner/property power exchange dynamics.

This month’s topic will be

**Getting what you want from M/s**

The following topic starter is not the general opinion of the entire group and is meant only to help generate opinions and discussions for the meeting:

Getting what you want from a relationship is never easy. Adding a power exchange makes it even harder. We tend to have specific desires, both superficial and spiritual. We are taught from a young age to treat people as you wish to be treated. If we try to use this principal in our relationships we would get no where. The “s” type would be filled with resentment. If they are giving so much to their “M” why are they not getting that in return.

How do we make it so we achieve our wants without damaging the dynamic?

I think wants and desires change and fluctuate as time passes. If we’re not getting what we want then have we picked the wrong person or are we just not being flexible with our wants? Wants such as structure, financial stability or routine can be mapped out to best fulfill them. Spiritual wants, such as complete surrender, are not that easy. How can one map out what they’re feeling will be or where their mindset will be in the future?

What is it that we are looking for when we seek M/s dynamic? What do we want to gain from that relationship and what do we want to give in return? But just answering these questions will only get you so far. You need to be able to then successfully communicate this with each other.

Please come and discuss this topic with other people that share the similar interests in Power Exchange and M/s dynamics as you.

Masters and slaves Together (MAsT) Metro New York will be meeting at the LGBT Center located at 208 West 13th Street between 7th and 8th Aves., NYC from 2 – 5 pm. Admission is only $4 for MAsT members, $5 for reciprocal group members and $8 for all others

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